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I Don’t Care That Much About What I Wear

October 31, 2016 by Blair Lamb Filed Under: Health & Beauty

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This post is about exactly what you think it’s about: the fact that I don’t care that much about what I wear. It’s not that I don’t care at all. I just don’t care that much. Basically, I don’t care even half as much as Instagram, fashion blogs, and other media think I should. Maybe not even a fourth as much.

Here’s the thing, though: I hate looking or feeling sloppy. My friend in college diagnosed me with “FOLSIP” in jest, or “fear of looking sloppy in public.” I know some girls who can throw on baggy sweatpants, an old t-shirt, and a messy bun with yesterday’s makeup and look straight-up beautiful. This is not the kind of world I can live in, because when I’m sporting that same look, I appear as though I’ve been living under a literal rock for a few years, Patrick Star style.

So, although I don’t like to look sloppy, I don’t care that much about being trendy. (Full honesty? I care way more about comfort being the texture-obsessed-freak that I am.) Most of my jeans are several years old, my t-shirts are old ones from college, my “nice clothes” are accumulated from working in a corporate environment in years past, Stitch Fix (referral link), and a few sales. I like to look put together, but I don’t spend that much time on it. I wear basically the same things week-to-week, rarely shop, and keep pieces for years before donating them.

I really like jewelry and using it to accessorize my [mostly classic, neutral] clothes, so there’s that. And when I go to an event, wedding, or on a date with Riley, I put on makeup and curl my hair, and I feel good about myself and my life. But it’s just not, and never has been, a top priority of mine to be a trendsetter or to buy new outfits every season.

I shuddered yesterday when I thought about how I wore khaki skirted overalls unironically until 7th grade. For the love. Hipsters weren’t even a thing yet.

I wear almost all cotton (again with the textures), lots of t-shirts from my Etsy shop because they’re the softest of all time (I would know, I went through about 12 other tees before settling on these), lots of comfy yoga pants and Nike shorts around the house, and stretchy, broken-in jeans when I’m out. When I pull myself together to go out, I enjoy it, but as soon as I’m back home, it’s back to comfort.

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Here are some irrelevant but nice-to-look-at wildflowers

This post is basically pointless, but what I’m trying to say is that we can’t all care about everything all the time. Like, I really love to cook and I highly value a clean house, so I cook and clean a lot. Plenty of other people think that’s a waste of time, and that’s legitimate. I think it’s a waste of time to try to keep up with ever-changing fashion trends. We can all care about different things to different degrees and still get along–that’s what makes life interesting.

So, when it’s a holiday, or a date night, or an event, or a wedding–I’ll show up, dressed nicely, and I’ll look presentable and put-together (probably). I think an outfit can absolutely change the way you feel and infuse you with confidence, but I just don’t obsess over my clothes. I don’t care that much. If they adequately cover my body and make me feel polished to some degree, that’s good enough for me. I won’t over-spiritualize this and say something in Christianese like “I care more about what my heart looks like than what I’m wearing,” because even though that’s true, I don’t think that’s the reason for my laissez-faire fashion sense. I’ve always been this way, even before I was a Christian. See: khaki skirted overalls.

Here’s the bottom line: you don’t have to care a lot about everything. You can care just a little about some things, and you can not care at all about others. I care a medium-low amount about fashionable clothes, I’m not “trendy,” and I want to be comfortable more than I want to be Insta-worthy. What don’t you care about that much?

// Really, tell me. What don’t you care about that much?

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Comments

  1. lostinprettyeurope says

    October 31, 2016 at 9:34 am

    Hi Blair! I am the same as you about clothes. I just don’t care that much about keeping up with the trends and what not. Other thing that I don’t care about is make-up. I just use a little eye-liner and light pink lipstick on most days. I do not have any make-up brushes, foundations and the likes.. and I am 23! ha ha. I also don’t care about heels. I have tried and I have failed – so I prefer comfortable flats/ballets for dresses, no matter how much my friends suggest that heels is the ultimate choice for dresses to look sexy/classy. I also do not care about jewelry, although sometimes I like wearing nice earrings. My jewelry ‘collection’ starts and ends with studs and earrings. I have tried hand and neck jewelry before but I find them uncomfortable 🙂
    Pooja @lostinprettyeurope

    • Krysten Moore says

      October 31, 2016 at 9:53 am

      I’m the same about makeup – a little blush, a little mascara and occasionally a matte lipstick, but contouring? Eyeshadow? Smoky eye? Nope.

  2. Emily says

    October 31, 2016 at 11:02 am

    I don’t care that much about getting a bigger and better house/car. I am good with staying in a ‘starter house’ with kitchen counters and appliances from the 90’s. I’d much rather travel. For the $5000 it would take us to update our kitchen we could spend a week in Scotland! We will move eventually and leave behind a shiny new fridge but we will always have the photos and memories from travel! ❤️

  3. Magpiemakingdo says

    October 31, 2016 at 1:00 pm

    Amen to this. I just don’t have the time or the energy to be on trend! Things change wayyyy to fast in the fashion world for me to catch up – and half the time I don’t even like trends until they’ve been around long enough to not technically be a “trend” anymore. Generally, as long as I don’t look a wreck, I’m happy!

  4. Mrs. Rooks says

    October 31, 2016 at 1:34 pm

    Ditto! I’m very much the same with clothes. Shorts, a tee, and flip flops are my fav. However, I’ve recently started working in a boutique so I’ve had to dress cute for work. It’s not that I don’t find styles cute, I do, I would just rather spend my money on other things rather than a piece of clothing! My main thing I don’t care about is make-up. When it comes down to it.. I love my sleep SO much more than making time to make a work of art on my face. My daily routine is a quick sweep of powdered foundation with mascara and sometimes an eyebrow filler since I’m a redhead and my eyebrows seem to get lost. Lol. Do you have that problem too?!

  5. A Life in Progress... says

    October 31, 2016 at 2:15 pm

    I try not to care but where I live it is difficult. If you do not dress a certain way you are often left out. I feel like I’m in High School. I stay at home and do a lot of errands to be cleaning. I need to be comfortable but also be able to get dirty. You can’t do that in “nice” clothes.
    Christine http://www.lifeinprogress15.com

  6. Allyson Rogers says

    October 31, 2016 at 9:29 pm

    My favorite part was the irrelevant wildflowers! Haha, just kidding.

  7. Elizabeth (@oakandoats) says

    November 1, 2016 at 11:33 am

    hahah! Man. I love this so much because I so agree! Shorts & a tshirt are my jam. But now I’m trying to figure out what I do care about/ spend my time on because it isn’t cooking (for a long shot. I wish I had your passion!) or cleaning (also I wish I had your passion)… or really cloths either! I actually fall more on the sloppy side of that one.. I just went to the store in my leggings with my Patagonia fleece and a messy bun (with yesterdays make up kinda but I don’t wear much of that anyways… so it’s probably all gone anyways.)

    I think I spend most of my time working… being outside…and hanging out with friends/ family. haha! And I guess I spend my money eating out!

  8. Nicola says

    November 5, 2016 at 4:41 am

    I’m the same way with clothes! I have a style ‘uniform’ that I feel good in (loose cotton top, skinny jeans, loose cardigan and scarf when it’s cold), but like you most of my clothes are several years old. I like to look put together, and I like my clothes to make me feel confident, but that means I wear what I know I like and don’t experiment or spend too much time trying to choose outfit.

  9. Lemon says

    July 9, 2017 at 12:38 pm

    Hi Blair! Im so happy to find your blogs so blessing. It makes me that Im not alone. I love your blog about work at home wife. Well, I was reading many of your blogs… Wish you the best.
    Its quite contradictory that I studied fashion design but I dont care much about trend. What important is we love our body.

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