Just before I got married last summer, I quit my job in Austin, Texas and moved three hours away to a city 30 miles north of Dallas, where my then-fiancé was living. Phew! That sentence encompasses three major life transitions: getting married, changing jobs, and moving cities. Today, I’m focusing on just one transition: changing jobs. (Though this change was highly affected and influenced by the other two.)
I won’t go in-depth again about why I decided to start blogging full-time; I’ve already explained that decision here and here. I knew when my husband and I made the decision for me to pursue blogging there would be people with questions and others who didn’t understand. That makes sense. If you’re not a blogger (or if you don’t know someone who is), you may not know that there is an income to be made through writing online. Our decision was based on three previous years of my blogging, all sporadic, all lucrative as well (my blog “turns four” this May).
How blogging for an income works
Here’s how blogging for an income works: I write meaningful, thought-out, [hopefully] helpful posts. Some are simply me sharing my life and story, others are compiled research and information, others are tutorials for various topics. Then, people read what I write. Specifically, women (98 percent of my readers) aged 18-34 (68 percent of my readers). Because my readers are mostly in this age range and almost all women, companies and advertisers with a target market that falls into the women aged 18-34 range are sometimes interested in partnering with me for exposure.
Here’s another way to look at it: good blogs and good magazines have a lot in common. They both have a variety of articles on different subjects intended for a specific audience. For example, Real Simple’s readers are women, mostly 25-54 years old, who are college educated and employed (source). Men’s Health attracts mostly employed men who own homes (source). Cosmopolitan has the same readership that I do, women aged 18-34 (source). All three of these examples have online and print advertisements (which are, of course, directed towards their readers) that fund the creation and distribution of the magazine.
I make money in a similar way. I write honestly from my perspective (as a woman in her twenties), and other women around my age with similar interests engage with my blog and its content. Then, companies and advertising networks reach out to me to see if I’m interested in partnering with them–it’s a win-win–they get targeted exposure and I get paid. (I’ve had the privilege of working with companies like Burt’s Bees, Dove, eBay, and IZZE–all of whom partnered with me for targeted exposure to millennial women.)
My audience and blog growth
This only works, however, if I have an audience larger than a couple friends and my mom. I started out writing for a very small audience, but my readership has expanded significantly since then. Last month (January 2016), I had 460,049 pageviews (total number of pages viewed on my domain), as reported by Google Analytics. When I first started my blog, my monthly pageviews were 1,396 (July 2012, the third month my blog was live). Clearly, my blog has grown quite a bit over time. (Yay!) But this didn’t happen casually or by accident; I have spent literally thousands of hours working to get to where I am today…and I still have a long way to go.
I’ve spent hours brainstorming, researching, and writing. More time proofreading, re-writing, and tweaking. Still more time uploading photos and creating header images, Pinterest-friendly images, and Facebook/Twitter-friendly images. Then, after publishing each post, I spend time broadcasting my post on social media. Later I spend time responding to comments and emails from my readers. I genuinely love doing all of this, but it is a lot of work!
Going from a hobby to a job
Until last August of 2015, blogging was just my hobby. I published new posts when I had time, which was sometimes multiple times a week and sometimes once a month or even less. Even though I didn’t have the time to dedicate to blogging that I wanted, I was still able to make a modest secondary income (which actually allowed me to get my dog, Charley, among other things).
All this led to my husband and I seriously discussing, and then later deciding that I would blog as my full-time job. Though it was a risky decision, I knew that I had a strong, growing readership. I knew that there was a group of women who were like-minded and were looking for honest bloggers who were willing to share their lives through words. I knew that there was money to be made, especially if I was more consistent and dedicated. Mostly, I knew that I came alive when I was writing. And so, after we got married, I didn’t get a “real job.” Instead, I focused my time and energy on blogging.
This decision was not taken lightly. As you can see, it was made based on facts and information, data and statistics. Some people are confused as to why I’m “not working,” but if a job is a paid position of regular employment, I have one. And it’s a huge blessing–to watch something I’ve been building for nearly four years become a lovely community and platform is incredible. The fact that I still have free time to maintain our home and pursue my other interests is fantastic as well (I usually work about 30 hours a week on my blog). And, of course, making a genuine income is both rewarding and necessary. As far as my college education is concerned, I use my Business Marketing degree daily to manage my site, create engaging content, work with advertisers, and broadcast my work.
Exactly how much money I bring in each month is private, obviously, and it also fluctuates depending on several factors. Suffice to say my income is enough that I am not, at present, considering a part-time or full-time job outside of blogging. Below I have listed my main streams of income, each with a brief explanation:
- Sidebar Ads | Individuals or companies can pay for an advertisement in my sidebar. Price is based on the size of the ad and the length of time it’s up.
- Amazon Affiliate | When I link to a product on Amazon, and a reader clicks through to purchase it, I receive a small commission on that purchase (between 4 and 8.5 percent). The cost does not change for the buyer, but Amazon pays me for the referral.
- IZEA | A third party marketplace that connects content creators like me to brands.
- Clever Girls | Like IZEA, a third party marketplace that connects content creators like me to brands.
- Google Ads | Advertisements in my sidebar that are created by Google. I am paid when a reader clicks through the ad.
- Content.Ad | Suggested, sponsored articles at the end of every post. (Under “You May Also Like.”) I am paid when a reader clicks through the sponsored article.
- BlogHer | A blogging network for women that connects bloggers with brands and pays for sidebar ad space.
Keeping up with all of these different streams of income is time consuming for sure. And taxes are a nightmare! However, this list and my incredible readers are what allow me to pursue this dream, and for that I am overwhelmingly humbled and thankful.
It’s hard to nail down the future of my blog and where I’ll go from here. For now, I’m perfectly content and very fulfilled writing everyday and now podcasting once a week. I also have a not-so-secret project that’s launching in March that I’ve been working on quite a bit. I’ve also been invited to be a speaker at a Christian college women’s retreat next month, which is something I’m really looking forward to.
I’d like to create an ebook or e-course of some kind. I’d love to become a published author…I often dream about walking into a Barnes & Noble and seeing a book I’ve written on the shelves. I want to have babies and be a mother, my husband and I want to travel.
There are lots of possibilities, but I’m not sure where I’ll land. I know that God will continue to direct my steps and that they’ll lead to exactly where I’m meant to go. And that excites me.
Blogging isn’t the end-all-be-all of my life, but it’s where I am right now, and I love it. I love writing every day. I love interacting through comments, social media, and emails with lovely women all over the world. I find purpose in encouraging others through my own story and what I’ve learned. I think it’s important to be honest and optimistic, a combination that can be hard to strike at times, but one that’s worth fighting for.
So, thank you. For reading my words and uplifting me with your own. You don’t see all the ugly that I see, so you can’t know how much I appreciate those of you who are kind and thoughtful and gentle. It can feel a bit like being naked in the town square sharing my life as I do in this space–but I wouldn’t change it. Thank you for your support!
Jessica Howard says
Thank you for this post, Blair. I started a blog almost 1 year ago as a hobby. I love writing and sharing my thoughts on this little thing called life. It’s also one of the reasons I love your blog. I recently moved to Germany (!) with my husband and my job is up in the air. I’d love to make money blogging and hope to dedicate some time to figuring it out. I will be coming back to your advice. Keep blogging. It is a job and you are awesome at it!
Blair Lamb says
Hey Jessica! How AWESOME that you are living in Germany with your husband! Germany is at the top of my list of the countries I’d like to visit, especially since Riley and I are both of German descent. Your blog is great, and it’s fascinating to read about live in Germany. Best of luck to you!
Kourtney Salyer says
I love your blog and read it almost every day! There’s something about the way you write and the things you write about that are so intriguing. Your kindness, intelligence, and optimism really come out in your writing!
Blair Lamb says
Thank you for following along–I so appreciate that! I love you for reading and commenting!
Yes! Keep blogging as Jessica has just said above. (Great blog too Jessica and have a great time in Europe).
I’m sorry to hear that people are mean. I don’t have a blog but do comment on a parenting site and I amazed at how unkind people can be, over nothing really.
I enjoy reading your blog, Blair and you write really well and work so hard. I’ll poo into yours too Jessica.
Blair Lamb says
Hi Sandra! Thanks for your encouraging words. Yes, the unkindness is appalling! Over nothing, like you said! Thank you for reading! Hugs!
Aah -I meant ‘post’ into yours Jessica! Sorry!!
Jessica Howard says
I have enjoyed your blog for a couple of years now and love watching it evolve. How awesome is it that you’re following your dream and being rewarded for taking a leap!
Blair Lamb says
Thank you so much, Corie! You’re too sweet. 🙂
Thank you for this post! I love blogging, and I have always dreamed of making it a job like you have. It’s hard to make the time to commit to that as I’m in college full-time right now, but I never know where the road may take me!! I love reading your blog, and have been a reader for a few years now. It’s really cool to watch someone grow as a person through their writing. 🙂
Blair Lamb says
Hi Megan! Stick with it, girl! I started this blog in college and it’s grown over the past four years. You can totally do it! Thank you for your encouragement and for following along!
Catherine Miroslavich says
I shared this with a dear friend who just had her first baby (precious little girl) because she is really hoping to launch her own blog and build a career out of it. She was so inspired! Maybe after Korea, I will get mine up and running!
Blair Lamb says
Hi Catherine! Thank you for sharing! I wish your friend all the best! And it sounds like you have a lot to write about too! Korea? Too cool! 🙂
Emily Hartung says
This is such an informative post! Thanks for blogging.
Blair Lamb says
Thank YOU for reading!
Hi Blair, I just discovered your blog and am so glad that I did… so many of your posts resonate with me, including your post about choosing to be a “stay at home wife”. Like you, I very recently moved (and upsized) from a flat to a house with my husband. My husband works full-time and primarily supports both of us, while I’m at home. It wasn’t supposed to be that way… after completing a journalism degree and working as a reporter (in aviation), I hopped from one soul-sucking job to another, and was often away on business trips, away from my husband. We were both unhappy and I realised I wanted to work for myself and get off that corporate treadmill – so I quit and started my own aviation news website, which I ran from my bedroom full-time for three years. My husband, being a developer, built the site for me, which meant minimal start-up costs! I put my life and soul into the site (branding, social media, writing, editing, commissioning writers etc), and it was great to see it succeed (traffic-wise!) as I grew my online community of readers, beat national newspapers to stories and got quoted by the big guns, from Mashable to the Huff Po. I also taught myself HTML/CSS and SEO. While I clearly had passion for writing, I had no confidence to actively pursue the sales/advertising side, other than running Google ads on the site. As a former journalist I also struggled with the idea of being both a writer and salesperson, and so I just focused on my writing and organic growth. While I was able to monetise the site, it wasn’t even a substitute for a part-time job so after a lot of consideration and heartache, I stopped writing and realised that this was never going to be truly sustainable – after three years of hard graft. Looking back, I never had a proper game plan for the site, other than my passion for aviation and building a community around it. Since then I have worked in content marketing and on a freelance basis assisting with copywriting and SEO (always web stuff) but I’ve struggled with confidence issues along the way (with my writing) and corporate jobs generally. I am a perfectionist which makes writing harder! I know there is something out there for me, but I don’t know what yet. I do know that I’m more suited to working for myself. I just haven’t found something that I can do consistently and comfortably that helps pay the bills too! I am currently at home looking after the house, and I am judged for it – by both family and friends. My husband and I agreed that this set-up made the most sense at this stage in our lives as fortunately his job pays enough to cover the bills and he can do it without much stress – in fact, he really enjoys his job! He puts me under no pressure to find work (he’s amazingly supportive) and we have always seen each other as each other’s equal in marriage, but my friends and family often make negative comments and I constantly feel like I have to justify myself to people, and prove myself to them. It’s tough. I like to challenge my brain and want to work part-time at least so I can spend the rest of the time on the house, and with my family. Anyway I think I got a bit carried away here with my commenting, but I wanted to say that I’m glad I found your blog – and I’m also glad that you have found and pursued interests that are helping you to live the lifestyle that you have chosen, on your terms! Love the t-shirt business idea – you are my inspiration! Lou